Why We Become Different People - And How to Shape Who You’ll Be Next?
A Deeper Look at Identity Change, Turning Points & Intentional Growth Even after “settling down,” people continue to evolve - dramatically. This article explores why human beings transform over time: how events, mindset, narrative, and deliberate interventions reshape who we are - even into midlife and beyond. 1. Stability and Change: A Frame Around 40–60% of personality is inherited , limiting - but not defeating - our ability to grow. Early life sets a baseline; the rest depends on experience and choice. Large-scale studies confirm moderate rank-order stability (r ≈ .7); we stay who we are relative to others, yet mean-level shifts occur across the Big Five. With age, we tend to become more conscientious, warm, and emotionally stable, while extraversion, neuroticism, and openness often decline. 2. Life Transitions & the Midlife Tipping Point Major changes - such as marriage, divorce, promotion or career loss - can accelerate personality shifts. About 20–30% of...